It has been my dream for awhile to take my family across the country and back to my roots. I wanted to share places that I know and love, share history with them and expose them to different places. This past winter I got a wild hair -- I felt like this summer was the time to make it happen. I have a most supportive husband who indulged me and we made it happen!
It was the trip of a lifetime. Any one facet of the trip would have made it successful, memorable and worth it, but to have so many wonderful things take place brought such deep, tender feelings to my heart.
My children and I bonded as we chatted in the car, sang together, learned about the different states together, and just spent time together without interruptions or distractions. A LOT of time together. So worth it.
My kids saw so many different parts of the country - the beautiful Rocky Mountains in Colorado, lots of farmland in the mid-west and tiny towns with wonderful, friendly people, the quaintness of upstate New York, beautiful Delaware, stately Washington, D.C., Amish Country in Pennsylvania, and busy Philadelphia to name a few places. I think one of my favorite things to hear was when Callie said, "I want to live in the east some day." I am so glad to have shown them different places and the uniqueness and good things of each one.
Time with family. I can not say enough of how good my family was to me while I was single-parenting it across the country. We were prayed safely to the east coast and back. We had a wonderful time with many cousins, aunts, uncles and Grandpa Martin. Time with family is WONDERFUL, and I particularly loved spending individual time with nieces and nephews and getting to know them better.
Time with friends. I was deeply moved and touched by reconnecting with old friends. After my first day of driving my dear friend Lybi opened her home up to us in Colorado and she took such good care of us: fed us, had family night fun with us, had great accommodations for sleeping and when my baby woke me up early in the morning she even sent me back to bed so I would be well-rested for my drive that day. It all meant so much to me and I loved getting to spend time with her. In Delaware I was able to spend time with my best friend from high school, Emily. I loved spending time with her on a few occasions and wish there could have been more - her old home in Pennsylvania is beautifully situated and perfectly suited inside and out to her - it was a treat to visit her there. I was able to go to church in Wilmington while I was there - I got there for the last little bit of church in my old ward and got to visit with people in the halls. It was a shock to run into Jimmy, who I grew up with and thought lived in Nebraska. What fun to catch up and see good people that are dear to my heart still doing well and still wonderful people!
Being spiritually fed. I couldn't go across the country without seeing sites that are significant to my family and I spiritually. It was incredible to take my children to Kirtland, Ohio, Palymra, New York, Adam-ondi-Ahman in Missouri, and Nauvoo, Illinois. My girls both had very special experiences for which my heart swells in gratitude.
As a side note, I have not blogged about a lot of things in the last 6 months or so that are significant to me that I would like to remember. As I go back and add posts, I will post them chronologically. So while it may not seem like I am updating - I am, just in the past:). For those who care, you can check April-now for updates. It will take a long time to get all of my trip posted, but so worth it to me - I want to remember it forever.
At least every couple of days Camden will refer to "our date". "Mom, do you remember when we went to the zoo on our date? Do you remember when we ate ice cream cones on our date? Is the Grandpa that is coming to visit us the one that we saw on our date?" It took me a time or two to realize that he was referring to our trip. I took this trip wanting to make an impression on my other children, but I am thrilled that it made such an impact on Camden. I will forever be grateful that we were able to take
THE TRIP OF A LIFETIME!